I’m ending my “vacation” here in Napa where rather than vacating my mind I’ve changed my life. I know that changing my scenery will still leave me with myself, but it’s really not me that makes me sad. I think I’m pretty okay. Maybe I wish I was funnier or skinnier or an ice skater but at the end of the day, I’m happy I’m going home with me.<\/p>\n
“What do you want to do?” This is a question I’ve been asked over ten times this week, by people with wide eyes poised and ready to help me, and I’ve said, “I don’t know. I want to write.” I’ve also said that I’m ready to join the wine business, which I am, but a great part of the allure of coming here is having time to write. And not just time but also space, space in my mind, a brief period of time where I’m not frantic about paying rent or scared of crazy people. I want just a tiny bit of peace in my life and I’m willing to accept a little help to get it.<\/p>\n
I’ve accepted a job at a very prestigious winery here in Napa, California. I accepted it for a lot of reasons, but the main one was how badly they wanted me. The HR woman, upon hearing that I couldn’t be here as soon as they wanted, said that the person in charge would be “heartbroken”. “Once in a great time,” she said, “someone comes along who we think is really special, who would be exceptional, who would bring great things to us”. Apparently they think that is me. I know I could do this anywhere. I know that I could own whatever I put my mind to do but it’s still nice not to have to tell myself that. It’s nice to have someone else say, “We need someone right now. We’ve been running short. But we are willing to wait for YOU for three more weeks.”<\/p>\n
So that is what I’m doing. In three weeks I’ll get back on a plane with my bikes and my clothes and start work in a winery. Four days a week I’ll do tours and pour wine, and three days a week (and some nights) will be devoted to my novel. I plan to get involved, to make friends, to carve out a life regardless of how long I plan to stay. Right now I’m willing to commit to winter, to March or so, and then I’ll figure it out from there. Actually, I’m willing to commit to three weeks from now and then take it from there. Anything is possible.<\/p>\n
But now, I have to wrap up New York. I get back tomorrow night and have three weeks to find someone to take over my lease, to pack my life, to say goodbye to my New York family.<\/p>\n
And then, once again, I start over.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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